This post could be triggering for women who are finding it difficult to have children. I am praying you and your partner get the desires of your hearts. The moment I’m having a conversation and someone says, “Whew, girl. I thought I was the only one thinking that!” I know I’ve found a blog post.… Read More No, we’re still not ready for kids yet.

This is part one of a three part series about the unexpected places in which we can find joy…when we are actively looking. I’ve realized two things in the last three months: If I can’t be honest with myself, I can’t write anything to you. I have no problem talking to you about my struggles… Read More There’s Joy in the Struggle

Happy New Year, sweetest friends! I hope the last quarter of 2018 treated you well and that however you are walking into this new year, you realize the vastness of your potential and the opportunities that are waiting for you. The last quarter of 2018 came with many unexpected changes that I was in no… Read More 2019: The Year of Enough

When I started this one, it was supposed to be for single ladies. But the more I wrote–the more I realized it was for all the ladies. So as a follow up to The Single Ladies Series, I am reminding me and you (yo’ mama and yo’ cousin too) to never top exploring our potential.… Read More Exploring Your Potential

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Living your best life”. You know what I’m talking about. You’re on your lunch break scrolling through social media and then you see the caption, “living my best life”.  It’s usually accompanied by a pic of someone laid out on a beach, posted up in a new city, or celebrating… Read More Redefining Your ‘Best Life’

I am the ultimate advocate for therapy. I have been going for about 6 months and when I tell you it has been a total and complete game change… …it has been a total and complete game change. And I have had so many women, those I know personally and those I don’t, asking me… Read More 3 Things I Found In Therapy

Last week I decided to take an impromptu trip to the west coast. We don’t have time for the why in this post (you can read it here if you’d like). But since coming back I’ve had both men and women ask me about my solo travel adventure and tell me that they’d always want to do… Read More What I Learned From Traveling Solo

For those of you who have been sending me a loving side eye, I’m back! I needed to take a break from blogging for the month of May to tend to life outside of the interwebs. We purchased a home at the end of April and spent the month of May moving out of our… Read More June 2018: Leveling Up Season

I write about what I experience which means sharing about navigating my way through the last couple of years in my twenties as an ever evolving dope black woman who is married and making traction in her career. Kids aren’t really a part of that equation. Not ones of my own anyway. Being a literacy… Read More The Cost of Being Educated and Black