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December 7, 2020

People of color are more than the harm caused by white supremacy.

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November 30, 2020

I am pregnant, grateful, and will miss my old life.

May 25, 2020

5 Ways Your Circle Sets Your Standard

May 18, 2020

Stop Hiding in the Baggage

April 22, 2020

The Promise of Success

April 15, 2020

The Gift of Rejection

— Relationship Musings —

Single Ladies Part 1: How You Live Now Impacts How You’ll Date Later

August 28, 2018

Girl. I know. I missed you too. I’ve been hustling in my professional life with a 9-5, two 5-9’s,  and not enough hours in the day. But sometimes we have to be okay with the fact that with great opportunities for growth come sacrifice. I knew that I’d have to hit a pause point on… Read More Single Ladies Part 1: How You Live Now Impacts How You’ll Date Later

— Relationship Musings —

Budgeting Your Energy Like Your Money

August 6, 2018

I am an ambivert. The love child of both an introvert and an extrovert. I love bringing people together and get incredible amounts of energy from the right people…and I am also really happy at home under my favorite blanket reading a book on a Friday night by my entire self. Let’s take the time here… Read More Budgeting Your Energy Like Your Money

— Spiritual Musings —

Thoughts for a New Year

July 30, 2018

My mind works in school years. I am forever on an academic calendar. I’ve been thinking about life in terms of school years since I was kindergarten…and I never really stopped. I love the “New Year”. A rebirth of sorts in August (or in this case July 30th because…pettiness). And while I wish I could… Read More Thoughts for a New Year

— Identity Musings —

Redefining Your ‘Best Life’

July 23, 2018

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Living your best life”. You know what I’m talking about. You’re on your lunch break scrolling through social media and then you see the caption, “living my best life”.  It’s usually accompanied by a pic of someone laid out on a beach, posted up in a new city, or celebrating… Read More Redefining Your ‘Best Life’

— Identity Musings —

3 Things I Found In Therapy

July 16, 2018

I am the ultimate advocate for therapy. I have been going for about 6 months and when I tell you it has been a total and complete game change… …it has been a total and complete game change. And I have had so many women, those I know personally and those I don’t, asking me… Read More 3 Things I Found In Therapy

— Relationship Musings —

The Problem With Loving His Potential

July 9, 2018

Potential (adj.) having or showing the capacity to become or develop into something in the future It’s the word we use to describe people who are on the brink of something worthwhile. A new situation that seems promising. The man with whom we may see something in the future. Typically, it carries a positive connotation… until… Read More The Problem With Loving His Potential

— Identity Musings —

What I Learned From Traveling Solo

July 2, 2018

Last week I decided to take an impromptu trip to the west coast. We don’t have time for the why in this post (you can read it here if you’d like). But since coming back I’ve had both men and women ask me about my solo travel adventure and tell me that they’d always want to do… Read More What I Learned From Traveling Solo

— Identity Musings, Relationship Musings —

Year 3: Self-Discovery vs. Self-Sacrifice

June 26, 2018

I’m writing this for you from about 30,000 feet in the air. I just paid for in-flight internet. I have “Escape” by Yuna playing over my headphones. And I am snuggly set between two very kind people on my flight to the West Coast. I decided on Monday that I needed a trip. By myself… Read More Year 3: Self-Discovery vs. Self-Sacrifice

— Relationship Musings —

3 Reasons Why Being (almost) 30 and Making New Friends is Hard

June 11, 2018

One of my best friends came into town about a month ago for a work trip. Only having a night in town, I did what any respectable friend would do–I picked her up, talked her ear off for hours over dinner, and then went out for ice cream. And it was glorious. So glorious that… Read More 3 Reasons Why Being (almost) 30 and Making New Friends is Hard

— Identity Musings —

June 2018: Leveling Up Season

June 6, 2018

For those of you who have been sending me a loving side eye, I’m back! I needed to take a break from blogging for the month of May to tend to life outside of the interwebs. We purchased a home at the end of April and spent the month of May moving out of our… Read More June 2018: Leveling Up Season

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